Date: Saturday, April 10, 2021 

Time: 10:00 am - 1:00 pm Pacific Time Zone /Sign in to waiting room at 9:45am 

Via Zoom and Zoom Breakout Rooms 

3 CE hours pending—Live Presentation participation only. Fee: $18.50. Please contact us for more info regarding the course at [email protected].


Dancing With Dragons


In this workshop, through didactic and experiential elements, the presenters will explore the nature of the dragon dance as a call for healing, and the development of polarized relational dynamics as a form of that dance that needs to be effectively addressed. Though, obviously, not all couples conflict is polarization, dynamics of polarization often emerge in most comprehensive couples therapies, so couples therapists need to understand polarization and how to help couples depolarize. Working effectively to defuse a polarized dynamic can open a territory of deeper vulnerability and sensitivity between partners, and strengthen the collaborative dimension of relationship.


Therapeutic Professionals  Invited!

Join us as Lou and Chris illustrate an approach to helping couples identify, and work through their polarized dynamic. This workshop is intended to engage and enrich the work of therapeutic professionals who work in clinical settings.

Overview

This workshop is intended for clinicians who are interested in the dynamic, challenging territory of couples therapy. Romantic relationships inherently hold the human dilemma that we cannot open to love without opening to where we have been wounded in love. We all have dragons. Their job is to protect the gold; in the most fundamental sense, the continued existence of our essential self. Our dragons protect our wounded hearts. We might say dragons continue to breathe fire until the core wound they are protecting is recognized. In this way, the dragon dance is a call for mutual healing.  

Sometimes this dance is one in which partners become polarized. Relational polarization is a specific type of conflict dynamic that frequently presents in couples therapy as an irreconcilable impasse: the endless argument that returns again and again but goes nowhere. Typically, in this condition, each partner is convinced they hold the correct view and each partner’s dragon can become fiercer and more entrenched. In a polarized dynamic, the emotional field between partners is dominated by a sense of life and death, all or nothing, no middle ground, no room for compromise, no one has my back - I am on my own.

In a polarized dynamic, the gravitational pull from partners to take their side can be intense for the therapist. In the context of this pull, it can be extremely helpful for the therapist to imagine that partners caught in this dynamic are representing opposing positions along a values continuum.  Some common examples are: saving-spending, work-play, dependency-independence, spontaneity-planning. In this way, the task of the couples therapist is helping partners recognize that each of their positions holds value for the whole.  

In this workshop, the presenters will share an “origin story” of their struggle around the decision to have a child, and will illustrate an approach to helping couples identify, and work through their polarized dynamic. They will emphasize the need for couple partners to encounter and work collaboratively with each other’s core wounds in order to shift out of the dragon dance into one that is depolarized, adaptive, more secure and more gratifyingly intimate.


Who is This Training For?

This training is for licensed/pre-licensed therapeutic professionals as well as students currently enrolled in Master's/Doctorate programs in related fields. 

Students, psychologists, MFTs, social workers, counselors, psychiatrists, nurse practitioners, and doctors are all encouraged to attend!

Our Presenters

Christine Armstrong, LMFT EHI Affiliate Instructor

Christine established her private practice in 1976. Her work focuses on depth psychotherapy and she combines an Existential-Humanistic approach with a psychodynamic perspective. She and her husband of 35 years, Lou Dangles, have been doing couples and group work together for the past 20 years. She has trained extensively with Dr. Jim Bugental and Dr. Irv Yalom. More recently her training has included Ariadne Beck’s “group-as-a-whole” model with Jim Fishman. She is currently in private practice in San Anselmo, where she works with couples, individuals, and groups.


Louis Dangles, LMFT EHI Affiliate Instructor

Louis established his private practice in 1976. His work focuses on depth psychotherapy and he combines an Existential-Humanistic approach with archetypal and psychodynamic perspectives. He has trained extensively with Dr. Jim Bugental and Dr. Irv Yalom. More recently his training has included Dr. Ariadne Beck’s “group- as-a-whole” model with Jim Fishman. He is currently in private practice in San Anselmo, where he works with couples, individuals, and groups.


About our couples work

"Couples often arrive in therapy with a compelling legal brief documenting grievances and the other’s egregious behavior.  It is not uncommon that they also arrive with a hope (conscious or not) that if they can demonstrate to the therapist how the other guy is the problem, the road to resolution will open. Our approach emphasizes an empathetic recognition of partner’s mutual contributions to relationship difficulties. We work to promote a collaborative healing process between partners. "

~ Chris & Lou



Workshop Host: Existential-Humanistic Institute (EHI)

Existential-Humanistic Institute (EHI) offers trainings, workshops and education in Existential-Humanistic approaches to psychotherapy. Formed in 1997, EHI continues to offer experiential training retreats, certificate programs, workshops, consultation groups, theory courses and community gatherings in the Bay Area with the goal of supporting existentially and humanistically informed psychologies and psychotherapies: approaches that focus on and nurture subjective experiential reflection of life's deepest joys and predicaments.

 

Our Co-Sponsor: Society of Humanistic Psychology (DIV32 APA)

EHI would like to thank The Society of Humanistic Psychology  for the continued and whole-hearted support of our online offerings and courses. 

Division 32: Society for Humanistic Psychology recognizes the full richness of the human experience. Its foundations include philosophical humanism, existentialism and phenomenology. The Society seeks to contribute to psychotherapy, education, theory/philosophy, research, organization, management, social responsibility and change. The Humanistic Psychologist is the society journal, published quarterly.

Continuing Education Details—Live Workshop Only

3 CEs. Fee: $18.50 (pay below during registration)


APA Division 32, Society for Humanistic Psychology is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. APA Division 32, Society for Humanistic Psychology maintains responsibility for this program and its content.

  • Accessibility: It is the policy of EHI to make every reasonable effort to provide attendees with disabilities with the opportunity to take full advantage of its programs. Please contact us ahead of time so we can work with you. Please contact our Admin, Michelle by email at [email protected] or by phone at 415.689.1475.

Please note that CE credit can only be awarded if an attendee meets all of these requirements per APA:

1) Attended the live session-no exceptions. Be signed in for the duration.  

2) Completes the post-workshop evaluation (anonymous)

3) Requests and pre-pays the CE fee prior to workshop.

There are no refunds if an attendee cannot meet the above requirements. Certificate of Completion will be issued by email after the requirements are met. 

LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCs: You too might be able to get Continuing Education Credit! 

Many licensing boards for LPCs, LCSWs, and LMFT's accept CE credits from an APA Approved Provider for their continuing education requirements. Please check with your Board or your Board's website to find out if they accept CEs from an APA Approved Provider like our sponsor, The Society of Humanistic Psychology. 

Example: California BBS accepts CEs from APA Approved Providers!

Waiver

There is a required waiver for attending and participating in this workshop due to both the topic and the format. This workshop in general, and the break-out groups in particular, will include experiential exercises that might be more likely to evoke emotional - including difficult emotional reactions than just presentational techniques.

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is this workshop for? This event is designed for both licensed/ pre-licensed professionals in the therapeutic fields and master's/graduate students in therapeutic programs. Students, therapists, psychologists, MFTs, social workers, counselors, psychiatrists, nurse practitioners, and doctors are all welcome!

How do I get my Zoom link? We will not send a specific Zoom link - we will send you specific instructions to join.

Does this workshop have CEs?  APA Continuing Education sponsorship for this workshop is pending for 3 CEs. CE participants are responsible for meeting the requirements and ensuring their licensing board accepts continuing education credit from an APA Approved Sponsor like The Society for Humanistic Psychology.

How do I get Zoom or a Zoom Account? Visit the Zoom Download page here to find the app/client that is right for your device.

What if I have difficulty? We will have some tech help in the Zoom Chat on the days of the workshop. Text Michelle at 415-689-1475.

I cannot seem to register, is there a tip? Try in this order: 1) select the number of tickets you would like to purchase and 2) initial for the waiver. These need to be completed before continuing on to put in your info. Email us if you have difficulty: Michelle at [email protected].

Do I need to give you my real email address? Will I get spam?  You do need to give a real email address as that is how you will get your Registration Confirmation with access to the Event page or communication about Continuing Education. No Spam! We will send you only reminder emails, thank you discount codes, and notes about upcoming events- but those will be created and initiated by us not the ticketing service. We will never share your info with a third-party.

TicketsPriceFeeQuantity

Professional/Pre-Licensed

Ticket Refund Policy: Full refund minus a $5 admin fee if withdrawn by March 27th; a 50% refund if withdrawn by April 3rd. No refund available after April 3rd, 2021.

$35.00$0.00Sold Out

Student/Elder

Ticket Refund Policy: Full refund minus a $5 admin fee if withdrawn by March 27th; a 50% refund if withdrawn by April 3rd. No refund available after April 3rd, 2021.

$25.00$0.00Sold Out

Economic Hardship

Ticket Refund Policy: Full refund minus a $5 admin fee if withdrawn by April 3rd. No refund available after April 3rd, 2021.

$10.00$0.00Sold Out
Total: $0.00

Optional: 3 CEs

  • Continuing Education Credits for Live Presentation

    Continuing Education Credits for Live Presentation

    I Request the 3 CEs for attending the workshop on April 10th.
    CE requirements:
    1. Attend the entire live presentation.
    -Sign in prior to start and stay through to the end, participating in the exercises,
    2. Paid the $18.50 CE fee.
    3. Complete the online course evaluation after the training-emailing us the proof of completion.

    Certificate will be emailed after requirements are met.

    Please do not request CEs if you will not be able to attend the live workshop- there are no refunds for non-attendance and CE credit cannot be awarded if the CE seeker is not present. Prior to the workshop the refund dates are the same as for registration. CE Grievance Policy is available.

    *APA Division 32, Society for Humanistic Psychology is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. APA Division 32, Society for Humanistic Psychology maintains responsibility for this program and its content.

    Even though it says "ea." after the $18.50, please note that the 18.50 fee is for all 3 CEs! quirk of the system....lol

    $18.50 ea.


I acknowledge that I am voluntarily participating in an online workshop hosted and organized by Existential-Humanistic Institute, a California Benefit Corporation (hereafter referred to as “EHI, Inc.”). I am aware that, based on the subject matter of this workshop, I might experience strong and difficult emotions, and that this workshop might evoke challenging, personal psychological material. I am voluntarily participating in this workshop with full knowledge of the risks involved, and hereby agree to accept any and all risks of harm that might result from participating in the activities in this workshop.

I understand that due to the format of this online workshop, participants might be broken into small groups or dyads for experiential learning opportunities during which there will be no oversight from the facilitator(s). I understand that this workshop in general, and the break-out groups in particular, will include experiential exercises that might be more likely to evoke emotional - including difficult emotional reactions than just presentational techniques. Experiential exercise might include role plays in which one or more participants play a therapist or facilitator and one or more participants play a client. I understand that if I role-play the client, I am not an actual client in a therapy session and that the participant(s) practicing psychotherapeutic skills while I am role-playing is not acting as a therapist in an actual therapy session. I understand that these role plays are not actual therapy sessions and that these role plays are for training purposes only. I also understand that I can leave this workshop at any time and that I am not required to participate in any exercises the facilitator suggests.

I agree that if I do have difficult psychological, emotional and/or somatic experiences while participating in this workshop, including in the role plays, I am personally responsible for therapeutically addressing these issues and that EHI, Inc. bears no responsibility. I hereby agree that neither I nor any of my family members or legal representatives will make a claim against or sue EHI, Inc., or its board members, contractors, affiliates, agents or volunteers for injury or damage arising from my participation in this workshop - excepting for clear acts of gross negligence or intentional harm by EHI, Inc.’s board members, contractors, affiliates, agents or volunteers. I hereby release EHI, Inc., its board members, contractors, affiliates, agents and/or volunteers from all actions, claims or demands that I, my family members and/or legal representatives might have or make for injury or damage resulting from my participation in this workshop - excepting for clear acts of gross negligence or intentional harm by EHI Inc.’s board members, contractors, affiliates, agents or volunteers.

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